
A dear friend was declaring her faith in Christ despite things having gone "so wrong" with her children. As an elderly Christian woman, she radiates the love of Christ. Her children both are married to selfish human beings. Yet despite this reality, both her children still exude Christ's love!
I venture to say that things could be worse. All is most wrong when love is not evident. Despite faulty spousal choices, her children glow with the love in which they were raised. Perhaps the love comes through more strongly as it shines despite great adversity. Their light shines in the darkness, but the darkness comprehends it not. [John 1:5]
My friend, your faithful parenting and prayers will show in the countenance of your children, no matter what.