Reach Towards God

She said to herself, "If I only touch his cloak, I will be healed." (Matthew 9:21)

And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus.  (Matthew 14:29)

Now there was leaning on Jesus' bosom one of his disciples, whom Jesus loved.  (John 13:23)

She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said.  (Luke 10:39)

...the crowd was pressing around Him and listening to the word of God.  (Luke 5:1)

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Come near to God and he will come near to you. [James 4:8]

The Exposed Heart

When you get married, your spouse gives you his heart.  It lies open and exposed before you. 

It is a big responsibility - to nurture this heart.  

Are you stomping or strengthening his heart?  Kicking or caressing it?  Belittling it or building it? 

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Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.
 [1 Peter 4:8]

Comfort

"When my spirit was in heaviness, thou knewest my path..."  (Psalm 142:3a)

What a comfort to know that He knows our hearts.  If our spirit is heavy, he knows it.  Psalm 142 encourages us to pour out our hearts to the Lord.  We can cry unto Him, complain to Him, show Him our troubles and pour out our complaints to Him.

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I cried unto thee, O Lord, and said, Thou art my hope, and my portion in the land of the living.  
[Psalm 142:6]

The Iron Entered His Soul

We tend to think that if we're suffering, then something is wrong.  We may feel it's the fault of someone in our lives, due to their behavior.  Or, we may blame ourselves for seemingly poor life choices. 
Yet, suffering is the very thing that God uses to refine us into pure vessels.

"He wants us to be, not hothouse plants, but storm-beaten oaks; not sand dunes driven with every gust of wind, but granite rocks withstanding the fiercest storms.  To make us such, he must needs bring us into His testing room of suffering."  ~Streams in the Desert

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'Joseph ' whose feet they hurt in the stocks: the iron entered into his soul' (Taken from the Book of Common Prayer, 1662, Psalms 105:18)

For Wives, When Struggling

Sometimes, he may not treat you lovingly.  He is not perfect; neither are you.  No matter how he treats you, forgive him and show him respect.  It is possible to show someone dignity and respect regardless of how you feel they are treating you.  Ask God to show you the good in the situation.  Have faith in God's future for you as a couple.

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Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.  [Ephesians 5:21]

A Thought for Husbands

She may think she deserves your love.  Your love is owed to no one.  It is a gift that you choose to give.
Yet no matter how poorly she treats you, love her.   No love left in your heart for her?  Turn to the Author of Love. 

And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. (I John 4:16)
 If God lives in you, then you can love her by relying on His love in you.

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...the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world. [I John 4:4b]

Peace

When you're lying awake at night thinking about that situation  or  that person, there isn't peace.   

He himself is our peace. (Ephesians 2:14)  The Holy Spirit within us is our comforter in the events of life that keep us awake at night.  Through prayer, we are promised the peace that passeth all understanding.  This peace will guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.  Yes, our hearts and minds need guarding.  Otherwise, we are prone to sleeplessness, self-focus, worry and despair. 

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7)

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Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.  [John 14:27]