Every Morning

It's the end of a long, tiring, unsettling day.  I give the day to the Lord; I place the unsettling issues on His shoulders and ask for answers and guidance.  Show me what I need to know, Lord.  Show me what I need to do.  I practice thankfulness; there are SO many reasons to be thankful.

And then, I go to bed early because "His mercies are new every morning" and I know that the sooner I go to bed, the sooner I will receive those new mercies.  

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LORD, be gracious to us; we long for you. Be our strength every morning, our salvation in time of distress.  [Isaiah 33:2]

Peace

From one of my favorite Welsh hymns, notice the capital letters that emphasize the Divine.  Meditating on these words has gotten me through quite a few rough days...

"Grant me the Peace beyond all earthly knowing
The gentle Peace that came thru' Boundless Woe
And from the Cross, on waves adversely beating
Against my soul, may Jesus calm bestow.

O! Grant the Peace whereby I would be willing
On earth to do God's work without dismay
Devoid of fear and confidently dwelling
In God the Father's love
Throughout my day. "

(H. Elfet Lewis 1860-1935,  English Trans. Caleb Rees)

Faith and Honor

Martin Luther once said of his wife, “I would not want to exchange my Katie for France nor for Venice to boot; to begin with (1) because God has given her to me and me to her; (2) because I often find that there are more shortcomings in other women than in my Katie; and although she, of course, has some too, these are nonetheless offset by far greater virtues; (3) because she keeps faith and honor in our marriage relation.”

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Honor all people, love the brotherhood, fear God... [I Peter 2:17]

Four Fingers Pointing Back

I remember retorting, as a kid, "When you point your finger, you have four fingers pointing back at yourself!!!"   There's a scripture that says the same thing in a much wiser way:  "If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us." (I John 1:8)  Why is it so hard for us to see our own faults??

Marriage is a sanctifying, purifying process.  If we want it to be successful, we have to stop blaming the person whom our index finger is singling out and be willing to look where our other four fingers are pointing. 

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The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.  [Psalm 51:17]

H.O.P.E.

Here's a daily routine that, over time, will build a marriage.  The 'H' part is different for a husband than for a wife.

H~  For him, this is heart.  Even if you don't have loving feelings for her, show a heart of love by spending quality time with her and listening to her.  Ask her how you can better love her (and don't get angry with her honest answer; just listen).

H~  For her, this is help.  God gave Adam a helper, suitable for him.  Even if you don't feel like helping him, look for ways to be helpful and ask him how you can help him (and don't get defensive with his honest answer; just listen).

O~  Open your Bible every day and read something, even it it's just for five minutes. Psalms is a good place to start.

P~  Pray every day, even if it's just for five minutes.  Tell God your needs and ask Him to give you the strength and desire to help (if you're a wife) and love (if you're a husband) your spouse.

E~  Expect less from yourself and those around you.  If you demand perfection, or very high standards, from yourself and your family, a miserable dynamic of tyranny can ensue.  Not only do the demandees become miserable, but the demander is equally unhappy.  It is a lonely road.

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I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. [Ecclesiastes 3:12]

I Am, I Can, I Ought, I Will!

I came across this phrase today, by innovative educator Charlotte Mason.  Here is a personal elaboration of the phrase.  

I am a work of God.  "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God has before ordained that we should walk in them."  (Ephesians 2:10)

I can do what is right.  "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13)

I ought to move forward on the right path.  "Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove your foot from evil."  (Proverbs 4: 27)  "If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn't do it, it is sin for them."  (James 4:17)

I will pray for help.  "So what shall I do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my understanding..."  (I Corinthians 14:15)

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Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. [Zechariah 4:6b]

Linen

The wedding gown that we will wear to the marriage supper of the Lamb, as the Bride of Christ, will be made of fine linen, bright and pure.  Our right to wear this will be recorded in two books:

"and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works." (Rev. 20:12)

The Book of Life, the first book, will have our names written in it if we believe in the saving blood of Christ.

The other books: These will list the good things we have done. 

        * I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me. (Matthew 25:36)

        * Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. (Proverbs 31:8)

        * Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. (James 1:27)


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Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”— for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. (Revelation 19:7-9)