Let's apply the Fact-Faith-Feeling train to evaluating a potential spouse. What are the facts about this person?
- Does he profess sincere faith in Christand is he pursuing God?
- Has he been trained in the "way he should go" by diligent, Christian parents?
- How does he use his time, money, energy and space?
- Does he demonstrate the fruits of the spirit?
- What do my parents think about this person as a life partner for me?
Pray in faith to the Lord for wisdom about whether or not to consider this person.
Evaluate my feelings: why do I see this person as a perceived treasure? (Don't define feelings here as a racing heart, sweaty palms, and trembling lips.)
Just as important, what facts do my parents see about this person? When they are praying in faith, what are their impressions? And, do they perceive this person as a treasure or a threat to my well-being in life?
TV~
Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you. [Galatians 5: 19-21]
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